My Top 3 Favorite Places as a Military Brat and Army Wife šŸŒŽ

Growing up as a Navy brat and later becoming an Army wife, I learned pretty quickly that home isn’t always a particular place. Sometimes, it’s wherever the military sends you next!

After living in 51 homes around the world, I’ve collected plenty of memories, adventures, friendships, and stories. Some duty stations were wonderful. Others? Well, let’s just say they helped build character! 😊

But when my Rules of Engagement co-author, Susan M. Baganz, asked me to name my three favorite places, I had to think about it.

How Do You Choose Just Three?

Spain immediately came to mind. I spent nine years there while my dad served two tours of duty. Those years gave me unforgettable experiences and a love for exploring new places and cultures.

But what about all the other places I’ve called home?

Every military assignment brought something different. New neighbors, new schools, new adventures, and occasionally the challenge of figuring out where we’d packed the coffee mugs!

Looking back, I realize that some of my favorite places weren’t necessarily about the location. They were about the people, relationships, and memories we made along the way.

Watch the Video: My Top 3 Favorite Places

In this short video, Susan and I chat about my favorite places from my years as a military brat and Army wife. You’ll hear which locations made my list and why they still hold a special place in my heart.

These experiences also inspire the military settings, characters, and relationships in our sweet, inspirational military romance series, Rules of Engagement.

Your Turn!

If you’re a military brat, spouse, or veteran, I’d love to hear from you!

What was your favorite duty station, and what made it special?

Share your answer in the comments. Who knows? We may have some favorite places in common!

Explore more military stories and our books at Rules of Engagement.

Why We Decided to Write Together

Sometimes a new adventure begins with one unexpected question: ā€œMaybe we should write it together?ā€

That’s how my writing partnership with Susan M. Baganz began—and I’m still grateful she asked.

In this short video, recorded during a visit to Susan’s home in Wisconsin, we share how friendship and a story I couldn’t quite get onto the page brought us together as co-authors of the Rules of Engagement military romance series.

A Story Susan Didn’t Forget

Before I became a published book author, I had a story I’d wanted to write for a long time. My military experience gave me a background to draw from, and I wanted to bring that world into a novel.

I pitched the idea to Susan in her role as an editor. She wanted the story.

There was just one small detail: I still needed to write it.

Susan didn’t forget. Each year, she would ask, ā€œWhere’s your story?ā€

Let’s just say she gets points for persistence!

A Conversation That Changed Our Course

As our friendship grew, we continued talking about writing and life. In 2018, we were driving to a conference together when Susan suggested we write the story as a team.

My response? ā€œAre you serious?ā€

Susan was already an established, published author. I hadn’t yet published a book. Her willingness to work with me helped me realize how much she believed in this story.

That invitation opened a door I hadn’t expected.

A First for Both of Us

Co-authoring was a new adventure for Susan, too. She had never written a book with another author.

We each brought something to the partnership: my military experience and long-held story idea, alongside Susan’s writing and publishing experience.

And we brought our friendship.

Looking back, the answer to ā€œWhy did you decide to write together?ā€ is pretty simple: Susan wanted the story, I wanted to tell it, and we decided to take the next step together.

That step became part of the journey behind Rules of Engagement.

Join the Conversation

Have you ever teamed up with a friend to try something new? Or has someone’s belief in you helped you move forward?

Tell us in the comments—we’d love to hear your story!

Ready to meet the characters who came out of our collaboration? Explore the Rules of Engagement books in my store.

Conversation with a Vietnam Era Navy Wife – Catherine Brakefield

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Please forgive the audio on this video. Had a bit of a snafu on my trip back to Colorado from Texas. When I got my normal microphone out 45 minutes before the interview, I realized it was bumped up. Yep. It was not going to work. So, plan B was a lesser-quality microphone.

No worries if you don’t catch it all. We will be posting pictures and other questions in our blog very soon that Catherine so graciously shared with Susan and me.

As you can see we have Book 3 cover revealed. We can hardly wait for you to read Book 3 in the Rules of Engagement Series, a sweet military romance.

Hope you enjoy hearing how Catherine and her Navy husband became man and wife!

https://www.amazon.com/Operation-Allegiance-Military-Romance-Engagement/dp/1936501805

Operation: Reconnaisance due to release June 27, 2023!

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For her, it was a marriage of convenience. He prayed she’d grow to love him. But their tragic pasts threaten to destroy any hope for their future together.

A tragic accident changed Rusty Sava’s life, and he battles daily with the consequences. Love wasn’t something he bargained for, but once he met Jane his heart was lost, and her little boy was an unexpected blessing.

The last thing Army Captain Jane Adams was looking for was a second chance at love. She wants to be wooed and desired—something entirely missing from her disastrous first marriage.

Can Jane’s love for Russ blossom with her in Korea and him in Colorado? But their tragic pasts threaten to destroy any hope for their future together.

Buy Operation: Reconnaissance, a sweet military romance, today.

Operation: Allegiance is Available !

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We are honored to inform you that book 2 in our Rules of Engagement series released this week! Operation: Allegiance is available now!

Injured Alexos Sava wants nothing more than to get back to his Army helicopter unit in South Korea. At home to convalesce on his family’s ranch in Colorado, his faith has been as battered as his ankle. The last thing he expected during his recovery was to fall head over wounded heels for a lovely redhead.

Kobbe Cooper-Sanchez has vowed to never marry a military man. When her father is seriously injured in a military helicopter accident, she returns home to help her mother. Alexos catches her eye but when she discovers his career, all bets are off.

How can love bridge the obstacles between this stubborn redhead and determined Army helicopter pilot?

Find out in this military romance.

Coming Soon!

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DeeDee Lake and Susan M. Baganz are pleased to announce that our new series of inspirational romance novels and novellas based on military life (specifically Army) will be released soon.

The first book, Camouflage Christmas, is a novella and features Brooke and Bernard managing a romance, and life, at Fort Benning, GA, Officer Training School.

Whether you’re a fan of the military, a veteran, a family member of a military person, or a military brat, our hope is that these stories, although fictional, will resonate with you.

Stay tuned. Subscribe to hear real-life stories from military personnel and those associated with them.

James B. Pollard held his new daughter before leaving for war with no idea of where he would be heading. He had just become a father of two and never knew if he’d see them again.

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